суббота, 7 декабря 2013 г.

Greeting Friend

there are a lot of people in our lives who we may call 'friends', but in reality is not most of them are true friends. do you know who is your friend? do you really think the friend is the one who you can see everyday and talk to? who is your friend and who is just a passerby in your life?
when thinking about it carefully you can find a lot of good answers, helping to differentiate you and those valuable people in your life and all the rest people, who are around but who hardly can help you to avoid the loneliness of the big and noisy world
trying to greet friend, as usual, one does not need any help, as knows for sure which words can easily reach friend's heart and make him/her feel warm about you in his/her life.
but still if feeling not so certain, try to help you
sometimes people use the ready greetings they can find online, but to create own greeting is much better and more meaningful
think over:
  • the holiday you are going to greet your friend (as usual holiday may give you the main idea of the greeting, if it is New Year: everything can be started from the very beginning or going on in the same or even better way; Easter: try to think about the soul and inner beauty)
  • event (wedding: new family life and the way you want your friend to have it)
  • maybe you just want to remind/say think you him/her for the friendship
  • show your gratitude over some special things your friend made for you
...of course all said above is rather superficial, like a starting point in your greeting so your task is to develop it and create your own unique lines

additional points:

  • the personality your friend has 
  • the events he had in his/her life
  • maybe some of your common experience or shared events
  • some special events in friend's life when he/she was really kind towards you/some other person 
  • some friend's words you may use to show your friend he/she is a very interesting or sincere person
to make the personalized greeting one needs to know the person very well or at least try to figure out everything one knows; find some little trifle no one never notices but that makes other person your friend

very helpful in writing are wise or funny expressions you may find...some lines which can help you to see the right idea for the very greeting

let's see an example:

Step 1  

find the right expression (let it be for example this i like)
“A friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things you can be.”
― Douglas Pagels 

Step 2 

write the greeting matching the expression (it can be a short or a long greeting depending on your desire and inspiration)
" till i got you in my life i did not know i can be a good friend. i did not really understand what friendship means and called 'friends' wrong people around me. it was hard for me to imagine the happiness of friendship and that special confidence one gets with the Friend: confidence you are not going to be betrayed, confidence you always get the help in the moment you need it most and possibility to be yourself, not trying to be someone else. now i have in my life the 'nicest thing' and 'the best thing i can be"

Step 3

write the end words (never leave the lines without your last farewell words)
"to the person i really care and the one cares about me" + date

Let's see what we have at the end:
 “A friend is one of the nicest things you can have, and one of the best things you can be.”
― Douglas Pagels
till i got you in my life i did not know i can be a good friend. i did not really understand what friendship means and called 'friends' wrong people around me. it was hard for me to imagine the happiness of friendship and that special confidence one gets with the Friend: confidence you are not going to be betrayed, confidence you always get the help in the moment you need it most and possibility to be yourself, not trying to be someone else. now i have in my life the 'nicest thing' and 'the best thing i can be

                                                                    To the person i really care 
                                                                                           and the very who cares about me
07 dec 2013

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